Category: Zac


Successes for 2017


I’ve been doing the 12 Days of Christmas for Writers with Julie Hedlund. Part of that was reflecting on our successes for the year. My post is on my writing blog here.

I thought I would do something similar here. It’s so easy to look at all the low points of the year, rather than the high points.

Here are some of the successes I’ve identified:

  • Nat being able to walk again and not needing a wheelchair any more
  • Discovering Zac has Neurally Mediated Hypotension and treating it, and seeing improvement
  • My first publishing contract and publishing Lizzy’s Dragon
  • Zac starting a new school and settling in well
  • Zac joining youth group at school and making a new friend
  • Finding a new team to help Nat with his CRPS, including connecting with the hospital school to help with his transition back to school
  • Zac getting his Blue Belt in karate
  • Zac getting awards at school
  • Starting this blog to share our journey and raise awareness of CRPS and ME/CFS
  • Connecting with the Ferocious Fighters groups for support with CRPS
  • The amazing support we have received from our church
  • The fantastic care Nat received at the new Monash Children’s Hospital
  • Spending lots of wonderful time with my nephews
  • Nat sharing his journey on his blog, Standing on One Leg

I’m sure we’ll think of more, especially once the boys get home from their dad’s place, but writing them out like this is a start.

In spite of the issues we’ve had this year, there have been many bright spots and successes in 2017. We are all looking forward to 2018.


Book Flood – 2017

December 24, 2017

Melissa, Nat, Zac

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I first heard about the Icelandic tradition of Jólabókaflóð or Book Flood about three years ago. As a book lover, I thought it was a great idea, but forgot about it and didn’t do anything about it. This year, in the lead up to Christmas, there were numerous posts about it going around Facebook, so I decided that it was a tradition the boys and I were going to adopt – whether they liked it or not!

Nat isn’t much of a reader. He enjoys books, but there are so many other things he would rather do than sit down with a book. Zac is more of a reader, but he also finds there are other things to do. I also struggle to find long periods of time I can just sit and read without the pressures of life crowding in.

In the lead up to Christmas, I had a lovely time choosing books for the boys, and I ordered the latest book by Nicki Edwards for myself. It was hard not to start reading it early…

According to the meme going around Facebook, the tradition was reading books and eating chocolate, so I added a block of chocolate to each package, along with a new CD for each of us so we could listen to some new music too.

Our books and chocolate!

 

I think the chocolate helped the boys embrace the idea of reading books all evening! Zac was excited about the idea of opening presents on Christmas Eve!

Once we had eaten dinner, we tidied up and then opened presents (yes, I wrapped mine too!). The boys were excited about their books. I chose The Boy and the Spy by Felice Arena for Nat and Nevermoor by Jessica Townsend for Zac.

We made hot chocolate, gave up trying to get the CD player working and looked up one of the new CDs on YouTube to listen to, and settled in for a lovely evening of reading.

I was amazed at how both boys got involved in this. After a crazy year of ups and downs, it was lovely to spend some quiet time together reading books. I’ve told the boys that next year they can get involved in the book buying too. They seemed to be open to this idea.

This was our first experience of Jólabókaflóð and it’s a tradition that we will definitely be repeating.

 


Blue belt!

December 15, 2017

Zac

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There have been many days on this journey of ours where it’s easy to get discouraged and think that life will just be a long line of lows without very many highs. Then I have evenings like tonight when I’m so proud I think I’ll burst.

Tonight, Zac went for his blue belt in karate.

This year has had its ups and downs for his karate classes. He missed a term due to ill health and his brother being in and out of hospital. He started back in classes at the start of Term 4. I was quite surprised when I received the invitation for him to sit his test, but they don’t send invitations unless they feel the kids are ready. Zac was keen, so I signed him up.

Over the last 24 hours, he hasn’t been too well. My parents were going to take him to his class last night, however he had fallen asleep as he was wasn’t feeling well! He wasn’t too good this morning, so I emailed the school to say that he was unwell and may not be able to attend. Thankfully, he was feeling better by lunchtime.

Dinner was rushed so we could get out of the door by 6.15. Zac was very excited.

He joined the other kids in the gym and got ready for his test.

As they got started, I watched Zac following the instructions. He looked really good out there, going through his moves with all the other kids. As the test went on, I could see him getting pale and losing his concentration – a sure sign his blood pressure is dropping. In spite of that, I could also see him concentrating as hard as he could on following the instructions. He wasn’t going to let it beat him!

After a break and a drink of Gatorade, he started to feel better and was able to complete the test.

When the test was over, including watching six students achieve their black belts, one of the instructors got up and spoke with the students. He was saying that in karate, as much value was placed on giving it a go and showing up, doing your best and participating, as on getting the moves perfect. His words meant so much to me, especially given the challenges Zac has been facing.

At the end of the evening, Zac wanted photos with his instructors. Each one of them congratulated him and told them how proud they were of him, and they knew how hard it was for him to show up each week and do what he’s doing, and that this evening was a huge achievement.

I’m so proud of Zac and how much he has achieved in his karate over the last few years.

Zac is awarded his blue belt


Appointment and the end of school

December 12, 2017

Nat, Zac

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This morning, we had appointment #3 for the week. This time it was with the Rehab specialist for Nat. We had seen her from time to time when we went for Nat’s physio appointments, but this was the first follow up since his last hospital stay.

We arrived at the hospital early, finding that most of the school traffic was clearer than it normally was in the morning! Usually, an early arrival doesn’t mean much, however this morning the doctor arrived at work just as we did, so we were able to see her at 9.15 instead of 9.30!

She was really pleased with Nat’s progress, especially the fact that he wasn’t using a wheelchair any more. She was amazed that his feet and toes were back to a normal colour and size. The last time she’d seen then they were purple and swollen. Every other time we had seen her, Nat was in socks and shoes.

The last time the specialist saw Nat’s feet, they looked like this!

He is average in height and weight for his age, and all his reflexes are good. We talked about how it wasn’t that long ago when his pain was too high to test his reflexes! Everything else was going well.

Our next follow up is in six months, giving him a good start at school and to see how he’s going. It also means we are still in the system in case we need support next year.

Today was also the last day of school for the year.

Zac had a lovely day, though his team lost the trivia competition due to too many questions about celebrities! On the drive home, we reflected on the year. He has had a great year at school and doesn’t regret changing schools at all. He is looking forward to Year 9 next year.


Today’s appointments

December 11, 2017

Nat, Zac

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Another day, another couple of appointments! Thankfully this time it only involved one hospital.

The first appointment was this afternoon at the Royal Children’s Hospital for Zac to have a catch up with the ME/CFS specialist.

I don’t remember ever seeing the hospital quite so full! We had to park on the bottom level and finding a seat in the waiting area was hard. We were able to find a seat when another family were called up for their appointment. We were both glad of a seat as we were waiting over half an hour after our appointment time before being seen.

The doctor was pleased with Zac’s progress, including his exam results. She checked his blood pressure and it was similar to what it was last time, which was good. We were told to keep up with his hydration and diet, and generally keep doing what we’re doing. We have another appointment in March next year.

The second appointment for the day was with the GP for Nat.

Nat has an ingrown toenail. We were laughing that he finally had something that the GP could fix! He has a course of anti-biotics and instructions to soak his feet and to come back if it hasn’t cleared up in 5 days.

After talking with some of the other Ferocious Fighters parents, they have told me that ingrown toenails are not uncommon. We are hoping the anti-biotics will clear it up.

There are the first of the appointments for the week. We have at least one appointment every day except Friday! Crazy week.

Thankfully it’s the end of the school year tomorrow.